May 20, 2012

Living Alone with Dementia

Living Alone with Dementia

Each individual living with dementia is distinctive and so is the circumstance he is living in.  Some of them are part of their family or may be living with one family member however few are who live alone with such disease. And reason for living alone could be person’s personal decision or may be a situation alone. Be whatever the reason for it, its challenging for their loved ones to leave person with dementia living alone.

 

Let’s assume a person has been diagnosed for dementia which does not mean by any way that he is going won’t be capable of managing himself alone. Rather than underestimating them one must help people with such disease to live on their own in known surroundings which is actually a sensible aim. However, it always makes family members tense thinking of their loved ones living alone.

 

Now the help you need to give such people entirely depends on their current situation. They would need assistance if they:

 

Do not remember to take a meal or medicines.
Are not changing their clothes or taking bath on regular basis.
Tend to forget about the potential critical situations like fire.
Don’t know whom should they let in the house and who don’t.
Are having fake suspicions about the people living around the house causing difficulty for neighbors and police.
Have forgotten to give food to their pets.

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Out of the listed circumstances, few of them can be easily handled. For example, if the person tends to forget his meals, you can arrange a meal for him through phone at his door steps and then either make a call to that person or have anyone meet him personally to remind to have his meal. While sometimes, situation may not be that easy and you might compromise on person’s security, at these times you need to think of more logical way to handle it in a wise way.

 

Where to begin from

There are dementia’s institutions where they have experts who can suggest you the best possible workout for people with such disease are finding hard to love alone. They can provide you with suitable solution as per your needs and also help in arranging or may be referring to right communities for them.

 

How a care taker can help in such situations.

 

Acknowledge that there is a risk.

There is always a risk in dementia person living on their own. But this factor should be judged by the person with disease alone. The family member’s must keep a regular check including professional assistance to see if they are still able to manage things on their own.

 

Family’s participation

There could be more family member’s wishing to participate in taking care of their loved ones in long term. They must sit and held meetings and decide at early stages who is going to cater which needs of affected member and who can provide what type of help in future.

 

Giving them their independence

Now this could be rails running towards their bathroom, toilet. They should have access to easily readable wall clocks including calendar with large fonts. An alarm clock which they think is easy to operate and reminders for their medicines and meals.

 

Handling financial decision

As the dementia evolve by the time, their ability in making legal or finance decision decreases. You must help them with such decisions though still making them part of those decisions.

 

Keeping other people informed

 

Author is an expert technical writer for senior citizen websites who specializes in senior citizen article writing. For more information on senior citizens, please Senior Living

Personality Can Be Changed By Dementia by Christian Goodman

Personality Can Be Changed By Dementia by Christian Goodman

Sparks has a wife, two kids are studying in college and co-owner of a multimillion dollar business. It is reported in CNN that Kenny Sparks was a “handsome man with a big smile.”. He is loved by everyone. But things started to change when he was 49.

His wife Cheryl said “He was stumbling over words,”. “And he would forget what he was saying – but at almost 50, I think we all tend to do that.”

Everybody saw the change in his personality. At first his family had a thought that he would be affected by Alzheimer’s disease. But he was diagnosed with frontotemporal dementia (FTD).

“He just wasn’t Kenny,” said his wife.

It is said by his son Graham that “He’d tell stupid jokes all the time,”. But “On [a family trip], he wasn’t telling jokes. He was sitting there with a blank stare on his face.”

Alexandra, his daughter noticed the change as follows “He exercised all the time. He would swim constantly and he ate well. And all of a sudden he was downing gallons of ice cream. Gallons!”

At last Cheryl drove him to the doctor. From the cognitive tests it is confirmed that “he couldn’t draw a clock and put the numbers or hands on it,” she said.

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His personality will be changed by FTD doctors said this to Cheryl. It will steel his ability to communicate and finally will end taking his life. Frontal and temporal lobes of brain gets damaged by neurodegenerative disorders. Reasoning, communication, social awareness, and memory are controlled by this part of brain. Once the FTD starts to develop it leaves the patient in confused state.

It is explained by Dr. Murray Grossman of the University of Pennsylvania as follows “Many patients will lose their inhibitions. They’ll act totally inappropriately, leaving their families to wonder what is wrong. Some patients will have no problem spending the family fortune, taking all their money and putting it into scams, get-rich-quick schemes, or going off and buying an expensive car or boat the family doesn’t need. The patients lose their reasoning. What’s particularly frustrating for family members is, the patients don’t seem to have much insight into the difficulties they are having or causing for others.”

Frontotemporal dementia affects approximately 250,000 Americans. Experts aren’t sure what causes this form of dementia, and it’s often misdiagnosed as Alzheimer’s disease.

Four years back Kenny Sparks was diagnosed with FTD. He cannot drive a car anymore. To take care of him his wife has quit her job.

“His need to be with me is constant, because he feels safe,” she said. “He can’t read a clock, so he’ll get up at 3 a.m. and that’s when we start our day . . . Now he’s more like a child, most times.”

What’s the hardest part of dealing with the dementia?

“There is no one hardest part,” Cheryl said. “Well, for me, knowing that the man I thought I was going to grow old with – I’m not, I guess. Yes, that’s the hardest part.”

Christian Goodman a natural researcher has formed a easy and simple set of exercises that increases the blood flow to brain and in turn prevents dementia. IF dementia attacks you can be sure that one will lose his personality to it. On a good note dementia can also be prevented.

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Blue Heron Health News is a well known publishing company in the field of natural health. The company lately issued a detailed note of exercises to prevent dementia.